...Are You Able to Practice What You Preach?
A good shidduch is a good shidduch. This is a very good young man and he is interested in meeting someone now.
My neck is falling apart with these three ruptured discs. I'm walking around in a Philadelphia collar. I'm in pain. Pain makes me grumpy. What's the point in meeting someone when I'm grumpy?
Reality is honest, it is good. Do you really believe that people can stay on their best behavior for an entire marriage? Of course not! There are times when you want to kill your spouse.
Are you trying to recommend or to discourage marriage?